Character.

In finding your partner, the persons character should be considered. Character is that gold ornament on you that as you continue to polish, its radiance is seen from a distance. It glitters and shines for everyone to see. Like the precious stone "gold", good character will never disappoint you. Bear in
mind that if left unpolished, it loses its lustre. When this happens, the lack-lustre effect becomes what people notice the most. Good character projects and favours one even before his or her actual appearance.

Now i need to make it clear that good character is not the same as physical attraction. I have seen many get carried away by the physical appearances of individuals thinking that they have good character, they immediately embark on a marriage proposal. They say they feel attracted to them. Body shapes and smiles do not tell one's character neither do pretty faces and heights. Physical attraction is only the first step to choice making. There are several other steps to go through before making a choice.